Things I Live By

Last week I bought the latest issue of Marie Claire Philippines, and I found this issue very interesting! I was especially inspired by the cover issue story “Things Eula Valdez Lives By,” that I decided to come up with my own list of things that I do live by.

Aside from living the 10 Commandments and the Christian/Catholic Teachings, here is my list, covering various aspects of my life and my interests:

The Golden Rule: “Do Unto Others What You Want Others To Do Unto You”
This rule is similar to Jesus’ saying, but on a different manner: “Don’t DO Unto others What You Don’t Want Others To Do Unto You.” As much as I can, I try to live by this rule. Of course, I’m only human and I do commit mistakes, but at least I am conscious of what I try to live by.

Love With All Your Heart, Mind, and Soul.
I can’t explain, but I live by this. Regarding romance… well… I believe that romance should always be present between husband and wife. I hope that 50 or more years from now, I can still see in Enrique’s eyes that same spark and loving and intense look I see right now.

Never Spread False Rumors Against Someone
This is actually part of the 10 Commandments. My “sin” here is probably to rant about what I have actually experienced with that person. So I guess that’s not spreading false rumors right? Hahahaha.

Eat and be Merry. Respect the Food in Front of You.
I don’t like the notion of lunch meetings. Come on, respect the food that you’ve been blessed. Whenever I eat, I savor the experience and the taste of the food. And I don’t eat as if there’s no tomorrow. I just eat with gusto…

Attune To Nature as Much As Possible.
I don’t know, but I feel so attuned with nature. I love communing with our Mother Earth. It gives me that feeling of a presence higher than us.

Don’t Love Your Work, Just Be Interested and Enjoy It.
Some people have the tendency to overwork themselves, therefore their work somehow rule their life. But not for me. Like what I say… it’s only work. The worst that can happen is you’ll get fired.

Have Your Own Personal Space.
That’s why I keep this personal blog of mine. I try to be one with my family (or husband and kids), without losing myself or my identity as a person.

Keep The Faith
So many cynics in this world. So many people thinking that there is no meaning in life. I had so many trials in life that there were times I felt like letting go. But I choose to keep my faith and believe that there is a higher purpose of which mankind may not comprehend, but still, there is.

Education is Very Important.
Learn Something New Always. This is one thing I hope my future children will also live by. I may not be considered a really smart or talented person, but I always try my best to learn something new and enhance the talents and knowledge I have.

Quality Over Quantity.
Be it food, fashion, friends. I may have a small set of friends, but I know I can rely on them anytime. For items, to have high quality might cost more, but for me it’s better. Example, I may own few clothes and accessories, but I know these are investment pieces and will last for a long time.

Never Buy Pirated, Imitation, Fake Items
Yes, this is a no-no for me. Not for pride’s sake, but hey, if I were an artist or a designer for that matter, of course I would like to earn the fruits of my labor.


Like I said earlier, I'm only human and may commit mistakes, but at least I know my personal beliefs and tenets in life, and as much as I can, try to live by these.