9 Ways to Become a Closer Couple in '09

Got this email from my colleague and would just like to share this to everyone...

9 Way to Become A Closer Couple in '09 (and beyond!)

1. Have more sex. Too simple? Not really. Sex not only creates more intimacy in a relationship, it also reduces stress, burns calories, and boosts self-esteem. What’s not to love?
2. Exercise together. Speaking of getting physical, why not let that energy spill over into the gym? Get your adrenaline pumping with a workout geared toward couples. Look for classes at your local gym or spot each other in the weight room.
3. Institute a date night policy. Can’t remember the last time you went on a date? It’s time to get back out there. Pick a night and stick to it -- talk, laugh, and get hot for each other all over again.
4. Mix it up in the kitchen. With the economy in turmoil, it’s a good idea for everyone to cut back on ordering in and dining out. Grab your favorite cookbooks and start planning meals together. Experiment with new recipes and create your own spicy twists on them.
5. Bite your lip. Nagging about things that need to get done around the house gets you nowhere -- in fact, it creates tension in a relationship. If you stay calm and communicate, you’ll both get more things done with a smile rather than mutual eye-rolling.
6. Show an interest in each other’s hobbies. He likes bowling and you like anything that doesn’t involve wearing communal shoes. We get it. But is it really worth spending the weekend apart? Make a sincere attempt at appreciating one of your spouse’s interests this year. You might develop a mutual appreciation.
7. Create a honey-do list. Tackling home projects is a great way to get things done -- together. As a couple, brainstorm improvements and fixes that you’d like to do, and then break out the toolbox.
8. Eat dinner together. We all have to eat, but are you making the most of it? Turn off the TV and tune into each other. Sit down at the table and linger over a home-cooked meal --you might be surprised by how much you have to talk about.
9. Make new memories. If the last photo album you put together was from your wedding, grab your most recent snapshots and print the digital ones lingering on your computer. These special moments might inspire you to reenact them (think: second honeymoon). Don’t forget the camera!