Ceasefire!

Finally!

After more than a month of constant arguments about wedding preparations, clash of personalities, accusations of not being able to understand and of being unaffectationate towards the other, Enrique and I had a really long talk that that didn't end in ugly terms. Sure, there was a bit of the usual arguing about certain opinions, but at least this time, we have acknowledged that when these petty debates happen, we don't just shut each other out and stop the conversation. That's what we did before. Result? Anger that resulted in threats to call of the wedding (on my part only, he didn't agree hahaha).

Enrique told me that he wants to strike out August 2006 from his memory. I told him he (or we) shouldn't, because the past month gave us an experience and different view of our relationship and who we really are. Many issues were raised and we saw our opinions and perceptions, our similarities and differences. At least we get a glimpse of each other's beliefs that we will probably never know had the situations last month didn't happen. Or probably we would see these, but it would be too late.

After our long phone conversation, I slept really well. Then my morning started with Enrique calling me and waking me up. *Sigh* I really hope that the last remaning days of being apart will be this peaceful. We both missed the "Us," the madly in love couple that we were. Of course, we are still madly in love, but back then everything was all rosy and all pleasant. I'm not expecting the next days of our lives to be all rosy and pleasant, but at least some issues and concerns between us have been cleared. Did our love for the other lessen because of the disappointments that we had? Not at all. In fact, it was even more confirmed that our love is strong, and grew even stronger than before.